Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Review: The Merck Manual Home Health Handbook


I received a copy of the third edition of The Merck Manual Home Health Handbook. for review on Mischiefmakers. Between the hard covers of this 2,000+ page reference book is an overwhelming stock of information.

When I first received the book in the mail, I admit I was awe struck by the sheer size and volume of it. Over the next few weeks, every now and then I would take some quiet time to go through the manual. I schlepped it along with me on trips to Starbucks and would take in a chapter here and there. By the time I had gone through the bulk of the manual, I was satisfied that I had fed my brain well. I was able to fill in a lot of holes I had in my head on various medical, health industry topics and on common health conditions. What a satisfying consumption!

I was extra enthusiastic about getting this book to review because the country is in the middle of the Health reform debate. It was very timely. In actuality, I wrapped on the book on the eve of the historic House of Representatives passing their version of the Health Reform Bill.

Anyway, one of the early chapters that piqued my interest was the one that explains in laymen terms managed health care and how HMOs v. PPOs v POS get paid. The later chapters about preventing diseases and diagnosing them, especially the sections on vaccines and screen tests were eye opening because these topics ordinarily are quite confusing to wrap the brain around. Especially in this time with health care being a hot button issue, it's important for people to know the facts! The charts and tables were wonderfully dispersed throughout the book and are organized in nice nugget sized chunks of data that are easy to digest when skimming through the book.

When I say the book is comprehensive, I am not joking. The font was pretty small and there were a dearth of photos and illustrations which I would have wanted more of because I am a visual person. Notwithstanding, the pictures and tables in the manual were pretty clear and did not get bogged down in complex medical terminology and jargon.

Although a morbid topic, I also enjoyed the section on preparing for death, either your own or that of a dying loved one. It goes through the emotions and various stages of prepping for death and delves into complex sub-topic of preparing financially for after death. It was a very insightful section.

The remainder of the book goes through various conditions, their diagnosis, the symptoms ,causes, evaluation, treatments and as I think of it, it's one of those books that is good to review all in once quickly and as you do make mental notes of the sections that stick out in your head for later.

Towards the end, there are chapters on family planning, infertility and children ailments and treatments. Those chapters also do a great job answering common questions and concerns for families.

You know, because I have family members who have certain medical conditions and in case I ever hear of the conditions getting complicated or causing trouble, I am happy to have this book to turn to and read up on some more information.

All in all, this is a manual that would be a great addition to any library. At bottom, I know my children are set when and if the time ever comes for them to do a school report on a disease or medical related topic.

Overall, I'd highly recommend The Merck Manual Home Health Handbook.

You can order it from Merck's website or Amazon.com

M.A.S.K. Mothers Against Spoiled Kids Public Service Announcment


just sharing my Facebook status update today:

"Spoiled Kids aren't born. They are created. Don't spoil your kids."

This has been a public service announcement by M.A.S.K. - Mothers Against Spoiled Kids

and now...

Top 5 Signs you have a Spoiled kid:

5.Clinginess - when they don't want to be put down, sleep in their own beds, learn to drive when they are 16 and insist on you chauffeuring them around, leave your side and explore when your are talking to someone and insist on interrupting you for attention etc etc.

4. Unreasonable expectations for you to - cut their food or spoon food in their mouths, carry them around all the time, stay up late and watch TV, pay for all their stuff whether they earned it or not, let them go to school wearing crazy clothes etc etc... Read More

3. Sharp tongue - talking back and extra unnecessary and inappropriate "back chat" /comments. Forgetting that you are the parent, e.g. THE BOSS. In the work world, they'd get fired. But you can't "quit" your kids

2. Tantrum throwing- b/c they need that toy, candy in the candy aisle, that hot new doll or game, or cell phone or car and insist on whining, screaming and leading you to essentially tear your hair out

1. Handicapped Ears - There's a problem with their ears b/c they don't understand the word "NO!"

PARENTS DON'T LET OTHER PARENTS SPOIL THEIR KIDS

ORGANIZE AN INTERVENTION TODAY

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Funny, You don't Look Smart



When I was in college, I told a friend that I was elected one of The Top Ten Freshman at my University and to which she responded, "Funny, you don't look smart."

Trust me, at that point, I was an insecure 18 year old and had not yet developed the cohones, self-esteem and bravado to respond to such insults. Had it been here and now, I would responded appropriately to put her in her place.

Notwithstanding, ever since that day, my girlish looks have set me up for many more similar insulting comments to looking so "young" and dumb, I guess.

Yesterday, I was reminded of it again when rolling my three children around a Marshall's department store. I was greeted with very judgmental looks from people who assumed I must be an out of control young mother having children she can't take care of because they were driving me crazy and I looked frazzled. And I can count on my fingers and toes the number of eye rolls, head shaking and tsk tsking that were hurled my way. Sad, but I know at this point I do not really know what is going on in their heads and I should be happy to look so young. I am certain that many other 36 year olds wish they would be so lucky to have girlish looks. Okay. Stressful enough, but I do NOT shop often with those three so I do not have to deal with that too often.

Roll back to this summer, I am walking up to the building where I set up a temporary office for myself and my interns to work out of for a client project. (ordinarily, I work from home, but this particular project required me to have bigger professional space). One weekend, I am dressed super casual and walking up to the building and a burly man dressed in suspenders, slacks and a dress shirt is standing by the building door.

I had my key fob in my pocket that I knew I would need to enter during the weekend. I see a sign on the doors instructing clients of an upstairs bankruptcy clinic to call a number to get buzzed in. The guy sees me coming and smiles to greet me and opens the door. I smile politely in return and try to maneuver past him to gain entry into the building. Apparently, he is dismayed that I did not acknowledge him more and he stands firmly in my way to try to block me from entering. Finally, a little confused and a bit peeved, I ask him to pardon me. He says nothing.

"Um, I have an office in this building." I tell the rude olf who resembles a well fed Colonel Sanders.

"YOU!?" he exclaims, clearly amazed, shocked and in disbelief that someone so casually dressed, young looking and quite female and unassuming looking would have the ability to have an office in that building.

"Yes," I replied flatly. "If you don't want to let me in, you are free to go back in and I will let myself in." I pulled out my fob and finally the ignoramus moved aside.

Boy! The Nerve!

At some point later, I am going to the bathroom and I see the same fool coming back from the men's room into our shared office suite. He proudly introduces himself to me and exclaims he is a lawyer.

"Hrmph!" I think in my head and then without the same air of self-importance I politely let him know that I am one too.

He looks quite shocked again! He is calmer now though and I, being the accommodating persons I can sometimes be engage him in small talk. During our chat, he learns about my accomplishments, the connections I have and quickly realizes that there are many synergies that coexist between our practices. I could well be a source of referrals for him.

Imagine! If he went with what his gut told him I was based on superficial outward appearances and obviously prejudiced and preconceived notions, he wouldn't be in the position to potentially get some new business.

Of course, that is where the relationship ended as I had no interest or need to further engage him or dare refer family, friends and colleagues to such a close minded person.

I've learned in life and work that is indeed better that people have lower expectations of me because it makes it that much easier to surmount these first impressions and dazzle them, but boy does taking such a backseat position require reservation and patience.

Thank God I have three rambunctious little ones and a very hectic life that is training me well. My older years are calming me for dealing with such buttholes in an intelligent way, but boy do I get tested and tested often!

And check this out I'm not the Only ONE!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Pumpkin Patch and Halloweeeeeeeeeeen!

We headed down to a Harvest festival in Mt. Airy, Maryland last weekend with the kids, my baby sis, her mother-in-law, and her son
Cboy feeding the goats
JBoy was the only one brave enough to let them eat out of his hands actually...brave kid!
GG checking out the chickens
riding around the Trike track
Swine Flu? GG checks out the chickens
and a baby calf only 8 weeks old...
the tube slides were too fun....
even I couldn't resist partaking...here I am sliding with my nephew, KD
TriniD and GG take a twirl
and waiting for J boy to come down...
which he did with a splash...
next up, the hay ride to the pumpkin patch to pick out pumpkins...


but first, a hay ride milk break...

two pumpkins for two pumpkins...
playing in the corn feed pit...



on top of the world on the hay bales...
getting lost in the kiddie maze (one of 5 different mazes they navigated)
one day earlier, GG went to the patch with her nursery school class...
she had a ball getting up close and personal with many of the animals on that farm.

FUN TIMES!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

I am THAT mother...


...who was so franticly rushing one morning that she sent the wrong lunch box to school with the wrong kid. Totally, switched the lunches! doh!


...and who accidentally forgot to put CBoy's homework folder in his backpack after correcting it the night before forcing him to be sent home with a Discipline note! doh squared!


...who accidentally threw away JBoy's picture he drew just for ME. It just got swept up in my Type-A obsessive sweeps of the dining room table. Eek!


We can't all have A days. Does it matter that mine are usually C-/B+ days? Thank Goodness Moms Don't get report cards, I'd be in Detention right about now. Ha!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Fun Stuff for Kids to Do in DC area this October Calendar

Wippeee!!! Look at all the fun stuff being hosted and thrown by the National Children's Museum this month!

02, 09, 16, 23, 30

Witches, Wizards, and Wands FRIDAY, 3 P.M. - 5 P.M. Enter an imaginary world of witches, wizards, and most importantly, magic wands at the NCM Launch Zone!

06, 13, 20

Wee Wonders' Sense-ational! TUESDAY, 10 A.M. - 11:15 A.M. Explore smells, textures, sounds, sights, and tastes with your child in this fun, fast-paced program.

10, 11

The 2009 DC Green Festival SATURDAY, 11 A.M. - 6 P.M. and SUNDAY, NOON - 5 P.M. Take part in this annual celebration of sustainability, where there is something for everyone: activities, a green film festival, live music, 150 speakers and workshops, a green marketplace with more than 350 green businesses, dozens of community programs, and an NCM Kids’ Zone. Washington Convention Center, 801 Mount Vernon Place, NW, Washington, DC 20001

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2009 Kids Euro Festival: France and Hungary SATURDAY, 11 A.M. - 4 P.M. The NCM Launch Zone is pleased to host 2009 Kids Euro Festival programs, presented by the 27 European Union Member States and independent cultural partners.

-FRANCE: Get a Taste of France Reading Workshop; Story readings at 11:30 a.m., 12:30 p.m., and 1:30 p.m.

-HUNGARY: Hungarian Storyteller; Stories are 45 minutes at 2:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.

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The Marine Corps Marathon Healthy Kids Fun Run SATURDAY, 9 A.M. - 2 P.M. NCM will provide hands-on activities for children in Camp Miles at the Marine Corps Marathon Healthy Kids Fun Run. Pentagon North Parking Lot, Arlington, VA

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2009 Kids Euro Festival: Greece and Estonia SATURDAY, 11 A.M. - 4 P.M. See October 17 description for more 2009 Kids Euro Festival details.

-GREECE: A Musical Journey Back in Time; Performance is at 11 a.m.

-ESTONIA: Raggie is Coming to America Reading Workshop; Readings are at 12:30 p.m., 1:30 p.m., 2:30 p.m., and 3:30 p.m.

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Crystal Run at the Marine Corps Marathon SUNDAY, 10 A.M. - 2 P.M. NCM will provide hands-on activities throughout the day at Crystal Run, the convenient festival location for families to cheer on their runners as they reach miles 22 and 23 of the Marine Corps Marathon. Festivities will be located right outside the Crystal City Metrorail Station.

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2009 Kids Euro Festival: Poland SATURDAY, 11 A.M. - 4 P.M. See October 17 description for more 2009 Kids Euro Festival details.

-POLAND: Beware of the Wawel Dragon Reading Workshop; Story will be read at 11:30 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 1:30 p.m., 2:30 p.m., and 3:30 p.m.


Thursday, October 8, 2009

Ten Signs you Might be a Mischiefmaker with two Lawyers for Parents

This post was inspired when I heard my husband tell our 7 year old son that he had to impose "sanctions" on his lunch!
10. You come in complaining about your brother hitting you and your mom asks you to state the basis of your complaint.

9. You're teasing your baby sister and your dad comes in from the other room and warns you to stop "badgering" your sister.

8. You break the living room lamp and before your baby brother tattles on you, you know you have to decide whether or not to "plea guilty"

7. You aren't told to go to bed, but rather to "adjourn" your playing until tomorrow.

6. You get your allowance in billable hour increments

5. When doing your homework and you mess up, your mom makes you "re-draft" it.

4. When you don't eat your peanut butter sandwich, your dad tells you he is about to apply sanctions and put in apple slices instead of cookies in your lunch box for the next few days.

3. You tell your mom "Timmy's mom lets him eat snacks before dinner" and she tells you Timmy's mom has no jurisdiction in YOUR house.

2. You know what the word "mitigating" means and you're only 4 years old.

1. You get to get out of the corner early when your dad comes home and issues a "pardon".