Thursday, May 28, 2009
The Ultimate Car Packing List
So, I have to re create my kids emergency/ car packing kit because we've cleaned our cars of all the junk and have to start over from scratch. Just sharing what I found around the net and created an ultimate pack list:
First how to keep the car clean. I do not know anything about this because right now the floor to my SUV resembles that of a movie theater the first night after a blockbuster opens.
From Ehow.com comes these tips:
Step 1: Use the seat back pockets to stash a few books, slim toys, travel tissues and miscellaneous back seat travel needs.
Step 2: Store the small garbage bag, disposable window wipes and travel-size lint brush in the back or the trunk. Keep the disposable hand wipes in the middle console for easy access. Offer them up anytime someone in the car gets sticky, gooey or smelly.
Step 3: As you make your stops throughout the day, take a minute to gather any garbage that has collected in the car. Use the small garbage bag to hold the trash until you can dump it in a trash receptacle. Recycle the bag (unless it gets sticky, gooey or smelly) and use it several more times to collect and dump.
Step 4: While waiting to pick up one of your passengers, use your disposable window wipes to wipe down any prints on the windows. These can also work to wipe up vinyl, door handles and any other solid surface.
Step 5: With leather seats, simply brush off the surface and wipe down any sticky spot with the disposable window wipe. Cloth seats can be crumb free after using a lint brush on them.
Now what to keep in the car:
Snacks: My little buggers are always saying they are hungry even on short trips and nothing hushes a wailing baby passing her back a cup of cheerios. We usually keep granola bars, a couple juice boxes, some peanut butter crackers and snack pack of chips in the center console.
Tissues and Baby Wipes
No sensible parents will travel with their kids without the aid of tissues and baby wipes. There will always be runny noses to wipe as well as sticky fingers, gooey faces and dirty bottoms to clean.
Plastic Bags
Plastic bags have many different uses. They can be used as rubbish bags, bags to carry soiled clothing, for throwing up or even cut up to line the car seat when there is a need – for instance when there are spills or when someone cannot hold the bladder long enough! They are also useful for stuffing little toys and trinkets that kids tend to leave behind. So keep several clean plastic bags of various sizes just in case.
Children’s CDs, Toys and Books
Play some children’s nursery rhymes and sing along with the kids in the car. It’s great fun to keep some small toys and picture books in the car too. Older children may enjoy joke books and read out loud for all to enjoy the jokes – it kills boredom when the family is stuck in traffic or waiting.
Change of Clothing
Even if you’ve already packed everything in the luggage, it’s always advisable to pack a smaller bag with a change of clothing for the kids. Make sure there is a spare shirt, jacket, towel, pants, socks and undies for each child. If any of the kids accidentally dirties or wets the shirt during the journey, Mom can easily change her without having to go through the entire luggage for items needed.
It’s a good idea to keep the change of clothing in the car at all times. The kids may have little mishaps in the car even during 10-minute drives or want an impromptu sleepover at their cousin’s house after spending an afternoon there.
First Aid Kit
Get a first aid kit and leave it in the car. Make sure the kit has band-aids, cotton wool, antiseptic cream, a pair of small scissors, alcohol swabs, gauze pads and triangular bandage. These will come in handy when someone suffers cuts and bruises while playing in the park.
Medication
If the family is traveling long distance, consider packing medication such as paracetamol and teething gel in a small toiletry bag and keep it in the glove compartment or a handbag instead of putting them in the luggage. The medication will be easily accessible when there is a need for it and the risk of it leaking all over the contents of the luggage eliminated altogether.
Cushions and Pillows
These can make traveling within the confines of the car more comfortable, especially when the kids are tired or sleepy. They are also useful to protect the upholstery if there is a big heavy load on the car seat.
Big Bottle of Clean Water
Fill up a 2 liter bottle with clean water and leave it in the car. You never know when someone needs to have a quick wash of the hand, rinse the mouth after vomiting or top up the water in the radiator!
Big Plastic Bin
Buy a big plastic bin and keep it in the trunk. This bin can be used to hold shopping bags, shoes, wet swimsuits and towels, dirty toys and almost everything mentioned above. That way, the trunk will be better organized and parents can find what they want more easily.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
The "Mom" Diet
These days, I'm on...
Breakfast
"The Lunch packing scramble" which is a mixture of left over scrambled eggs off of the baby's breakfast plate, with a side of waffle pieces from Cboy's breakfast, the uneaten grapes and string cheese I unpack from the previous day’s lunch kit and the crust from the edges of the peanut butter /jelly sandwich from that day's lunch
Washed down with the leftover milk from 4 year old’s bowl of cereal.
Lunch:
Mixed greens topped with leftover fish from the previous night’s dinner. Dessert: various snacks I hid from the kids and re-discover accidentally and randomly during the day, in a linen closet here, glove compartment there….
Dinner
What dinner? By the time I snack on the various ingredients that go into cooking dinner, who has any room for anything else?
Afterdinner/After putting kids to bed:
I try, though lately not so successfully, to do a 30-45 minutes romp in the gym to burn it all off...I have got to get on a better routine! oy vey!
Ha!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Funny Mischiefmaker Folly

So Trinihubby took the baby off my hands so I could get some work done. He offered to rock her to sleep in the basement.
Forty Five minutes later, I am sitting at the computer on the second floor and I hear "caplunk caplunk caplunk" I get up from my chair and peer down the stairs to see this bright eyed baby hobble-crawling up the stairs with a tennis ball in her hand and her shoulders hanging out of her tank top. Smiling bright as ever! She looked up at me and went "heeeey!"
Too funny. Cause obviously she had rocked her daddy to sleep and not vice versa!
I pick her up. Ten minutes later, I hear a bellow from below:
"JJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ!!!! JJJJJJJJJJJJJJ!!!!! You've seen the baby!?"
HILARIOUS!
Monday, May 25, 2009
Things that go "womp womp" in the night

I don't know about you, but I really hate it when I get up in the middle of the night and get a burst of energy to straighten up and pick up here and there on my way back to bed and some random toy still in the "on" position decides to talk to you!
Hearing "hey, come on, Let's play!" in a pitch dark room can scare the living daylights out of a person, man!!!
sheesh!
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
NEW WORKING MISCHIEFMAKER MOM RULE

between the hours of 5pm and 9pm when the children come home, I will ignore all telephone calls except those from immediate family.
I am doing horrible at letting my work day bleed into the family time with the kids. Trinihubby hates it. I feel guilty about it. The kids certainly would love my undivided attention.
I have memorialized it here and do solemnly swear to abide by the family 5-9pm hour rule!
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
How Come My 6yr Old's YouTube Videos Has more hits
...than all of mine combined? :S He has like 400 and Justice Fergie was telling me her son's video has like 10,000 hits or something crazy like that!!!
These kids and technology. That kid can understand, manipulate and maneuver any technological device (remote control, camera, computer, PDA) within 5 minutes of tinkering with it. He is adjusting settings, saving links, bookmarking stuff, scrolling and doing all sorts of stuff that half of the adults I know can't do!
amazing!
My intellectual humorist

Cboy is such a ham and has an excellent sense of humor for an almost 7 year old, if you ask me.
He's always saying funny stuff that I think I should blog about.
Case in point, Trinidadddy was poking fun at the dinner I made for him one night which consisted of one chicken finger. In his prayer, during dinner he thanked God for "one chicken stick". Well, that cracked all of us up... and I went, "That's hilarious, I'm going to..."
Before I could finish my statement, Cboy goes, "put it your blog". har har!!! Am I that predictable? and what great timing.
Today was no exception. I had to interrupt my re-braiding stylist appointment to run and pick up the kids and take them to Cboy's piano lesson. He asked me to take off my hat to which I gave him this horrifying look shaking my head violently. "No! No! My hair is hideous under here!" He backed off understandably. That's my sensitive mama's boy.
Fast forward, after class. I park the car and he goes, "Ahh Home Sweet Home. Hurry quick. Let's get in so I can pull down all the shades and you can take off your hat and noone can see your HIDEOUS hair!"
HAR HAR HAR!! he said it so matter of factly with such comedic timing that I couldn't help but crack up!
Jboy has his fair share of hilarious things he says too...his raspy deep voice alone (thanks to mama) is enough to crack you up. His delivery is innocent, but very humorous.
My boys! I love em!
Monday, May 11, 2009
Mother's Day 2009
Trinihubby led the kids down the slate rocks onto the beach to skip stones...much to the horror of my mom...
the cliche "hands-holding against the sunset photos". That was my baby sister's idea...cute. sloppily executed by me, the amateur photographer

Walking the boardwalk, baby sister holding GG. Her son KD is being pushed by my mom. Middle sister, AJ, behind. Check out these chics' model posing and walking...they crack me up, these fake fashionistas! ha!
My sisters... they think they are Models!
We wandered down the sandy beach where the relocated "The Awakening" sculpture now rests from its original home in Washington, DC's Hains point. The kids made a sand castle.
Doesn't this image look just like a pretty -- just like the the promotional photos?...it looks like an artist rendering of a venue to be created
Cboy checking out the relocated "The Awakening" statute from a balcony patio above the makeshift beach...
One of several boardwalks...there is a yacht at the end you can tour...
my pops with Cboy and GG trying to jump out of his hands!
Me and the kids, mom's day! Twas fun...we ended our trek by getting soups at the Potbelly spot before heading home.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
Check out this Beautiful Shower Cake from one of Ebonymom's Showers
Beautiful!
I hope all the moms have a wonderful day celebrating and being pampered by their loved ones!
Ciao Bellas!
Friday, May 8, 2009
My Favorite New Mommy Site

Mommy In Pink. I love today's post from this awesome site I just discovered via another new favorite Playground for Parents:
Why is it, that I can never take an uninterrupted shower anymore?
Why is it, that I can never just pee in peace?
Why is it, that I'm lucky, and I mean LUCKY, if I can eat a full meal before it gets cold?Why is it, that I can never seem to catch up on laundry?
Why is it, that I always have dishes piled in the sink?
Why is it, that I always seem to have a spit up stain on my shirt?
Why is it, that I never have a free moment for myself?
Why is it, that despite these things, I'm completely and 100% okay with it?
Oh, that's right...
It must be because I'm a....Mommy!
It comes with the territory I guess.
Thursday, May 7, 2009
This Describes my 16month 2 Weeker to a T
GG enjoying the Green Pastures on the Ag Day fields at Maryland Day 2009From BabyCenter.com
New this month: The toddler connection
Even at this young age, your toddler is learning that he is rewarded with positive attention — hugs, laughter, praise — when he behaves in ways that people around him think are "right," and that he is punished or ignored when his behavior is "wrong." (What may really amaze you is how quickly your intuitive toddler learns that to different people right and wrong mean different things. A behavior that might elicit a frown from you, i.e., pounding a toy on the coffee table or pulling the dog's tail, brings peals of laughter from an older sibling.)
The social interactions you're most likely to witness now are basic — waving, smiling, playing peekaboo, and following simple instructions — but these are all first steps in establishing his personal social style that are learned through imitation. A 16-month-old is also able to initiate displays of affection and he'll give back what he receives. If you show affection with hugs and kisses, he will likely, too.
Other developments: Developing self-awareness
A newborn isn't able to differentiate between himself and his mother or between himself and any object he sees. Tasting, touching, smelling, and hearing what's in the world around him are ultimately what help him understand that he is a separate being. At about 16 months, your toddler understands that he is his own person, but that he can use you as an extension of himself. For instance, if he sees a toy that he wants but can't reach, he'll push you toward it and gesture until you know he wants you to hand it to him. Or, he may not feel comfortable walking up a flight of stairs, but since he's determined to do it anyway, he'll grasp your hand so you can help him.
At this stage, your toddler knows he is powerful and he is the center of his world. He uses your attention and amazement and appreciation of his accomplishments to attempt even more. He wants to succeed at everything he tries, though he often won't. You'll catch him attempting to carry objects that are far too heavy or unwieldy for him to handle, but he'll be adamant about trying. Rather than help him, admire his chutzpah and let him cry out his frustrations when he can't do something; he'll keep trying and soon succeed.
Giving him opportunities to imitate you at work, such as "cooking" in a play kitchen since he can't really make you dinner, will help cut down on the frustration he feels about being too little to do some of the things he wants to do and will also build his self-esteem. Toddler-sized tool sets, little play kitchens, or grocery carts are great fun for 16-month-olds.
A Day at the Zoo
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Maryland Day 2009
We got there a wee bit late this year because Cboy had a soccer game right before. Next year, we know to skip any morning activities so we can get a full day in.
The carnival at the Student union is the most popular b/c there are free balloon sculpture artists creating the fantastic balloon creations, free slushies, free cotton candy, and free soul food in the Nyumburu Cultural Center.
On Hornbake Library, had the flags of the world. I didn't have time to take a photo with the Sierra Leone and Trinidad.


Fun with Hay in the Barn

J Boy loved the horses...
GG taking in the Green pastures
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
It's Official! I'm now a bonafide Soccer Mom



I must say that playing Soccer is sure to boost his confidence and help out in many other ways. A great supplement to piano playing.
And I'm out there coaching from the sidelines, playing Cheerleader and trying to keep JBoy from eating all the team snacks and GG from running into the field and in the center of other people's games...oh yeah and from getting hit from errant balls jettisoning from left and right. Boy do these kids need help with their aim! Oy
vey!












